I’m a heteroromatic cis ace woman who doesn’t experience intimate attraction or sexual interest, and fluctuates between being indifferent about intercourse and being averse.
I was asexual, I was in the relationship I’m currently in, with a cis het man whose feelings, desires, and need for sex are completely different from my own when I realized. We’ve encountered numerous challenges because of y our intimate incompatibility. Yet, our relationship continues to be standing.
To tell the truth, often I’m astonished.
We’re nearly four years strong and we’re figuring things away as we get along. After our pros and cons, i’ve a couple of explanations for the usually posed question, “how does that work exactly?” in relation to our relationship.
Now, I’m perhaps perhaps not claiming to possess most of the responses. A-spec (asexual spectrum) folks have a selection of experiences, and we won’t have the ability to provide understanding of each and every experience (hell, I’m not qualified). And like we said, we’re nevertheless figuring some plain things down.
But I’d love to share two things we’ve discovered from trial and error, long conversations, frustration, and successes. Continue reading “You discovered Out Your Partner’s Asexual – Now What? 5 union Tips for You”